mount Kisco

Personal Retreat To Mount Kisco

Hello … let me re-introduce myself…

I'm Dominique Drakeford, chief curator of the blog MelaninASS and co-founder of Sustainable Brooklyn. With the official titles out of the way: I'm a Black woman raised in Oakland and now living in Brooklyn, working every day to demystify ecological stewardship, dismantle systems of oppression and elevate the voices and work of POC — especially Black women — in the sustainability space.

This little corner of the internet is where I share the things I love — travel, youth development — alongside the things that stretch me, like entrepreneurship and healing, plus whatever random thoughts I feel like putting into words.

Each year I aim to take one or two personal trips to re-center. Last year I hopped a Mega Bus to Philly and it was so dope. This year, I chose to head upstate to Mount Kisco.

The older I get and the deeper I invest in my work, the more I value intentional solitude. Reconnecting with my inner-community — for healing, writing, self-exploration or simply to feel grounded in nature — is essential to my spirit. As much as I love New York, there are times I feel like I'm suffocating and need room to breathe on my own.

  • Creative/social entrepreneurship isn’t easy, relationships (family, friendship, business or intimate) is not always easy

  • Navigating space in my Blackness is not always easy

  • Being present on social media is not always easy

  • Standing up for what you believe in is not always easy

  • Healing is not always easy

  • Not comparing myself to others is not always easy

So I make time to show up for myself, by myself … and it's honestly one of the most beautiful commitments I've made in my early career.

… Showing up for myself

This time around, as a nature-loving woman, I was after seclusion. I wanted time to connect with nature, to stay in a beautiful cozy cabin on my own and, honestly, to get some much-needed writing done. Mount Kisco was perfect — just an hour and a half from Brooklyn by train!

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Define your self-care rituals for you … and you ALONE!

Mount Kisco sits just an hour and a half from Brooklyn by train, which makes it an easy escape when city life starts to feel heavy. This diary entry follows a solo stay in a cozy cabin — time set aside for writing, nature and reconnecting with myself. It's a reminder that self-care rituals work best when you define them for yourself, not for anyone else.